A Disabled Person's Guide to Talking With Your Partner(s) About Sex

Two people talking to each other. One, who appears to be a woman, is in a wheelchair. Judita Tamošiūnaitė/Pexels

Disabled writer Carrie Kaufman created this excellent guide for disabled people who want help getting started with or refining their sexual communication with partners. It includes advice on how to develop and explore sexual agency, power, and pleasure. Written for young people, but suitable for all ages.

“Non-disabled people always ask disabled people about how we have sex, like it is some mysterious thing. But the truth is, vulnerable conversation and communication is often the only difference between disabled sex and mainstream notions of what sex should be.”